Kezia is a mum to three boys aged between 4 and 9, each of whom is Twice-Exceptional, which means they have disability and gifted with a high IQ. Her caring journey is anything but ordinary, navigating the intersection of disability and giftedness means living with one foot in two worlds, where the needs are diverse and the path forward is rarely straightforward.
“With invisible disabilities, the caring role can be quite invisible as well,” Kezia reflects.
This insight speaks volumes. The challenges she faces aren’t always seen, and neither is the emotional labor, advocacy, and coordination that go into supporting her children. From managing therapies and educational needs to simply making sure each child feels understood.
Kezia first discovered Carers WA through the Autism Handbook, a moment that marked a turning point in her journey. Like many carers, she initially tried to do everything herself.
“I wish I had been brave enough to ask for help rather than think I could do it all myself,” she says. “It might be exhausting to get supports lined up, but once it’s lined up it makes life so much easier, so ask for help.”
Kezia is home-schooling one of her sons and holds a postgraduate qualification in gifted education. She’s now working toward launching a Zoom-based business to support parents navigating the gap between a gifted or autism diagnosis and accessing services, offering both lived experience and professional insight.
Recently diagnosed as autistic herself, Kezia has made changes that have improved her life and helped her model healthy strategies for her children. She also prioritises self-care with weekly pilates and monthly date nights. Small routines that help her stay balanced.
Kezia’s journey is one of strength, growth, and purpose. She’s turning her experience into a resource for others, proving that support and understanding can make all the difference.
